OK Jay, thanks for that apology.
Now it's my turn for a say. I've kept quiet while you went on a rampage insulting people, I never actually said anything bad to you, just told you to behave. You lashed out unreasonably, and yes you've apologised, but not because you've wrong but because (and I quote)
the last couple of weeks have been hard.<personal reasons>
Well when your shit was going down in this forum I was greiving for one of my best friends who died suddenly in his sleep. In addition, my brother was in a very serious state in hospital in the ICU after a hit and run accident. You came in here, one of the few places I like to escape to, and went on an insulting spree.
It was immature. We all have personal issues, but most of us are adult enough to not allow these issues cloud our judgement, especially when it's a chat room forum - the issues in this place are menial in comparison to the real world. And if you had "personal problems" then why were you so intent on spending so much time and energy coming here to crusade about your own visions of who people should be?
Quite frankly I think your apology is pathetic. You blame it on personal reasons instead of admitting you were just immature and ignorant at the time. I wouldn't flatter yourself that your puny comments caused any of us hurt. You insulted people on looks that you can't comment on as you've never seen them, and you insult them on their intelligence (well I won't even go there) and their comments, which you also completely misquoted and took out of context.
However, now I've said my bit, and you've attempted an apology I'll let you stay in forums for a bit (using the forum account you're currently using, all the other accounts you created stay banned for now). If you put one foot out of place, and cause any trouble or speak on behalf of other banned members then you'll be gone again.
If Cordy, Jee, or any of the other members have a real problem with you staying then they should pm me. If there are valid reasons why you shouldn't stay then I'll be banning you again.
So for now, apology accepted. Just about anyway... Now go play nicely in forums.
